I’m a little bit excited here.
Ok, maybe that’s an understatement.
Today’s word I. just. love. It’s the next word in Paul’s Philippians 4:8 goodness. We’ve explored thinking things that are true, noble, right, pure, and lovely… all with beautiful goals of honoring the Lord, staying focused on great stuff, and my passion: circumventing conflict before it even starts.
So what’s today’s word? Admirable.
A few fun facts about admirable:
Like ‘lovely,’ it is used only here.
In Greek, it looks like this coolness: εὔφημα.
- The first part εὔ is the prefix of words like ‘euphemism’ – it means good.
In case its helpful, a euphemism is substituting a favorable word in place of an inauspicious one. And don’t you love definitions that need to be defined! Inauspicious means unfavorable {it pops up again below}. So it’s substituting a favorable word in place of an unfavorable one. (examples: ‘passed away,’ being ‘let go’)
- And actually, the second part, φημα, also aligns with euphemism. It means fame or report. It’s from the word φημί, meaning to say, declare, or make known one’s thoughts.
So admirable (εὔφημα) is also translated ‘of good report.’ It is making known your good thoughts.
It includes ‘keeping a holy silence.’ So it includes abstaining from inauspicious words {there’s that ‘inauspicious’ word again!} – keeping from saying unfavorable things.
But these aren’t just ‘euphemistic’ good thoughts. It’s not just saying something nice even though you’re trying to cover for something less nice. They are at least positive and constructive rather than negative and destructive. But it’s more than that. It goes deeper than that.
I love this: Admirable (εὔφημα) is described as ‘implying essential worthiness.’
Don’t you just love that? Can you imagine if all our comments about one another implied essential worthiness? If they implied the essential worth that each believer has as the son or daughter of the King! If they implied the essential worth that Christ implies – or more than that, enacts, embodies, exemplifies… bought! He bought each and every believer with His. own. blood. That is the essential worthiness of every believer (and those not yet believers!).
It’s like a tattered teddy. There are plenty of negative or critical or lacking things to observe about him.
But can you imagine being critical about the bear to its owner? Can you imagine telling its precious owner that this bear is ratty and a piece of trash?
Yikes.
Instead, how does the owner perceive the bear? If we think about him through an admirable lens, how would our description of him change? What would we say if we thought about him through the lens of ‘implying essential worthiness’?
Valuable. Precious. Useful. We’d look past the tattered parts – not because we ignore them, but because we see them differently. They’re not inauspicious things to critique; instead, they give the bear some of its worth and identity. They speak of memories and camaraderie. They are part of its essential worthiness.
It might be kind of how God sees us…
And how we could choose to see each other!
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